Somewhere between three weeks and one hundred years ago, my hubby and I said, “I do.” Yes, it’s a big spread, but when we asked our twins how long they thought we’ve been married, that is what they guessed. It’s actually been six.
It’s hard to believe that is was 18 years ago when we first met, over a three-way phone conversation of all things! I love our story, so I thought I would share… Ali (pronounced like the boxer) and I were both friends with this girl, Melissa, but he and I didn’t know one another. On the night before our first day of high school, Melissa and I were chatting on the phone, she had just got three-way phone service (remember how cool that was??) and decided to try it and give Ali a call. We all chatted for at least a hour that night while our moms’ threatened us to get off the phone and get to bed (sorry mom). Our first day of high school was finally here! I ended up missing the bus and was late to my first class. I walked in and every seat was taken. It was English class and Mr. Ochoa was my teacher–he asked if anyone would give up their seat for me. Only one kid raised his hand, so I was directed to sit in his seat, while he stood next to me (poor kid). Before I could even thank him or get his name, I was called to the auditorium. I looked for him all day to thank him, but I never found him. It wasn’t until the last class of the day, Geometry, that I finally saw the nice boy, who had given me his seat in English. He was in the first row and there was an empty seat next to him, which happened to be the only one left in the class. So, I grabbed it quick and I turned to him and told him how I had been looking for him all day. I thanked him for his sweet gesture and introduced myself and then he did the same. Crazy enough, it was Ali! Up until that point, we didn’t know that we had talked the night before! It was at that moment that an amazing friendship began. We were never high school sweethearts, just the very best of friends. Our friendship has survived each other’s romances and it wasn’t until our first kiss many, many, many years after that three-way phone conversation that we realized that we were meant to be together.
From 1994 to 2009…
My hubby… almost a year ago he set out to make a HUGE change in his life. He wanted to get healthy, he wanted to have more energy for our boys, he wanted me to be proud of him, he wanted us to be a strong family. I couldn’t be prouder, we couldn’t be stronger, he couldn’t be a better example for our boys, who couldn’t get enough veggies and fruit at dinner tonight, and the energy, wow, he’s doing circles around all of us! 175 pounds lost and we’ve gained so much!!






































